Then i logged into facebook. I have a cousin, who since I can remember has always just been a super bitch to me, and hated. ALWAYS. Whatever, I dont even think about her because she's just not important. But her sister is so sweet and we get along so we keep in touch, and are having a reunion in a few weeks most likely. Well, Maleficant commented on a fb post on my cousin's husbands wall syaing how she is surprised they are even talking to me after what I said after her grandmother died. Whoa, what??? First, it is OUR grandmother. Second, my grandmother had this will where she gave all her stuff away. Whatever, she had nothign of value anyway. When she passed, supposedly she willed a collection my father bought her to Maleficent. My dad was upset and asked Maleficent since they mean nothing to her and everything to him if he could have them. Of course she said no way. And her mom was being a super biatch too. So I wrote a letter to my other cousins telling them how terrible they were being. And it was a lot of drama. i dont care. So I politely emailed Maleficant that she shouldnt start things on other peoples fb and she can keep her negative feelings toward me between us, etc etc. i was kind of impressed actually; I didnt let my disust with her get in the way of writing a well composed response back. of course she had to write me back telling me how i am not her family etc etc. Whatever. Shes just mad Im prettier than her. And Im going to be a real doctor instead of a doctor of pharmacy.
My point in writing this is such: we all do and say things that hurt and disrespect each other. i am not perfect, nor do I claim to be. And some people just cannot get over themselves or things you do to them. there is a way however to deal with your issues with someone else in a polite, respectful manner. It speaks volumes about a grown woman who has a graduate degree's character who puts another person for no reason out there on a family members public page just to take a stab at them. I feel bad for the children she raises, because she will probably raise them to be as vile, selfish, and rude as she is. But at the end of the day, she wasted her time, because I still dont care. Im ok with never hearing from her or seeing her ever again. I have peace with it, and just hope that one day she stops carrying around so much bitterness. thats no way to live life.
